Do you trick yourself into thinking everything is OK, when you know, deep down, that you don't feel satisfied? You can't keep brushing over those niggling feelings, they just build up until you become really unhappy.
Why should you settle for less than truly, deeply, madly joyful? If you're stuck in a rut, you might think that's an impossible aim - but it's not - and it's how everyone should feel.
Make time to treat yourself well every day. You have to really care about yourself, and know that you deserve to be treated well by others too. Once you get into the habit of having fun and spoiling yourself, you will radiate out that you love, respect and value yourself, and you expect nothing but the same back - and that's exactly what you will receive.
Make a list of all the things that are holding you back, and promise yourself that you're going to address each one. You can take each issue through the Z Point Process, and let it go for good. You won't ever again be weighed down by anything that is preventing you from being completely happy. Once you've released something with Z Point, you are emotionally detached and free, so it can't continue to affect you.
Instead of dreading a dark, gloomy winter - you can look forward to a bright new future - light the spark inside you now!
"Maxim for life: You get treated in life the way you teach people to treat you." ~ Wayne Dyer
"There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity. " ~ Nathaniel Branden