When you want to change you'll find endless opportunities to help you. Instead of looking elsewhere, and continually feeling let down after the book or course didn't work for you - stop! No matter how much money you spend, if you're not ready - nothing can change you.
Only you can change yourself.
At first, that can feel very isolating - especially when you've reached the desperate stage. You know you're tired of seeing the same old issues showing up in different forms, and you're tired of going round in circles just feeling more confused. That's why you need to stop.
Doing nothing is better than repeating the same old patterns.
That may sound ridiculous when you need things to change immediately, if not sooner. I know how that feels, but I now know that taking action without a clear intention just muddies the waters even more. When things start escalating out of control it feels frightening - but fear freezes the brain, making it impossible to find a solution.
Stop doing the same old - and start stopping!
Those who don't understand the Law of Attraction insist that action is what makes it work. If you keep repeating the same ways to find answers, you'll get deeper into a mess - action without a clear direction just gets you there faster.
Learning how to stop isn't always easy after years of programming, but it doesn't mean you're lazy, or you're giving in. You are doing the best thing for you, and for your future.
You need to take care of yourself as a priority.
Living with stress only leads to illness. You can begin to relax by simply slowing your breathing, and the more you let go of the weight of your issues, the more the dark clouds will lift - allowing you to see the solutions that are right for you. Be patient, kind and gentle with yourself,
Spending time doing 'nothing' is time well spent.
Say goodbye to the past, and welcome a different future - that can happen after you've changed yourself. When you know how good it feels to relax, and continue to look for ways to feel even better - your whole life will change.
If you stay the same, your life will stay the same.
All you have to do is make sure you feel good! That's a brilliant exchange for leaving stress behind.
It takes time - beginning with catching your thoughts. Your unconscious mind rules your brain, so you have to be relaxed to tune in and sense when you're heading down the old, worn tracks that kept you stuck. Your subconscious only wants to keep you safe, but your comfort zone is actually a painful trap - read this post.
You are not the same child who believed in Father Christmas!
This proves you can change, and learn new beliefs. You are not the same as you were last year, but instead of letting circumstances change you - you can choose to feel good, and create the life you dream of.
When you believe in yourself, everything changes.
You are capable of creating whatever you want. Focus on how you feel, and make that your daily goal before you do anything else. Monitor your feelings constantly until you know you feel lighter and happier - and enjoy the rewards you see - I promise they are worth every ounce of courage you take to change yourself.
If you want to release the root cause that keeps you stuck - I can release it peacefully with ZPoint. Once you experience the deep relaxation you'll know this is how you want to continue to feel. Your whole body will let go of tension and pain, and your mind will be calm and clear - allowing you to see your way forward.
“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” ~ Andre Gide
“In a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is more productive than energy devoted to patching leaks.” ~ Warren Buffett
“A year from now you will wish you had started today.” ~ Karen Lamb