If you take a fixed position that what happened to you was so traumatic that you can never overcome it, then that will be the case, and you will always remain stuck, and unable to move forward.
If you are able to detach yourself emotionally from your experiences, you will be able to become more objective, and see that, no matter how bad it was at the time, circumstances are different now, and you have the opportunity to change how it affects you today.
Looking at a serious illness, such as cancer, for example, if you take the factual viewpoint that between 1 in 2 to 3 people will get cancer in some form, then it's clear that 33% - 50% are not sitting at home wishing if only they hadn't had cancer then they could go out and achieve what they really want in life.
This shows that it is possible to get over your past, and become a success despite anything that has happened to you. The Z Point Process can release upsetting times, so that they lose their power over you. This leaves you free to become all that you are truly capable of.
Think about the lack of choice you are living with if you decide that you prefer to cling to the victim role, and allow your history to define who you are, and what you do.
Or you can choose to live with the unlimited potential that is available to everyone. It is always possible to write a new story, and with the help of Z Point you can choose a very happy ending.
"Our past is a story existing only in our minds. Look, analyze, understand, and forgive. Then, as quickly as possible, chuck it." - Marianne Williamson
"I never told a victim story about my imprisonment. Instead, I told a transformation story - about how prison changed my outlook, about how I saw that communication, truth, and trust are at the heart of power." - Fernando Flores