It's all too easy to get caught up in social media gossip, or the trivia that "celebrities" constantly share about themselves.
(The mystique around a true celebrity is the in the words of Marlene Dietrich "I want to be alone.")
When you can detach from it all, and stop judging and criticizing others, your life will become more peaceful. You will be able to spend that time focusing on what makes you feel good.
As the Dalai Lama quote says when you place your focus on becoming aware of what you can change about yourself, you will benefit far more than paying attention to the faults of others.
Never be critical of yourself, always be kind. This is where learning to be aware, which is noticing what you need to change, is a long way from pulling yourself to pieces. It doesn't matter the extent of the thing that you know needs changing - treat each concern with the same lightness, and lack of judgement.
Awareness gives you the opportunity to grow, and develop into all that you can be. The more time you spend focusing on yourself, and feeling yourself improve, the less time you will care about what anyone else does wrong.
It is not indulgent - this is how you learn what you need to let go of, to move ahead to the next stage of your life. Become aware, let it go peacefully with ZPoint, and free yourself to expand into further levels of awareness.
"To be aware of a single shortcoming within oneself is more useful than to be aware of a thousand in somebody else." ~ Dalai Lama
"Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." ~ Leo Tolstoy