Taking responsibility for everything you see in your life can be very daunting, but until you do you won't be looking at your dream becoming a reality.
Once you face up to accepting that you attract everything - both the good and not so good, then you move into realizing how powerful you really are.
I resisted growing up for as long as possible - from watching the adults I grew up with I didn't particularly want to be one... I was left with no choice after my parents died, even though it took an awful 5 year relationship to fully wake me up. I was convinced I needed someone, and I couldn't cope on my own (believing what I'd been told). The truth was I wasted my energy fighting for 3 years to get him to leave my home, and I only created more sadness.
I spent a long time on my own enjoying peace after endless drama, and it took an even longer time to learn to trust again. I want to save you from lost years, and show how trusting in yourself first brings you the life you really want.
The rewards are limitless.
As long as you give the power to others to decide how you feel - you will remain stuck. When you stop blaming other people and situations for things that don't go your way, you release the damaging emotions of anger, hate, frustration, and you stop holding on to grudges and bitterness.
They're all fabrications of your thoughts. Stopping those thoughts is the first step to change.
Instead, when you focus on yourself, you choose to do things the way you want to do them. You don't have to do anything to please others, so you just get things done in the simplest ways that suit you.
When you stop looking over your shoulder checking for approval, or listening to the voices from your past, you free yourself to move ahead much faster, and feel much lighter.
You save yourself so much time!
Forget what your parents and teachers told you - believe in your own abilities, you only benefit from them when you step forward, and make your own choices. You are capable of doing far more than you know. Don't allow your talents to remain hidden - you can create your dream life doing whatever makes you happy. I made the impossible possible - and you can too!
It all starts with you!
When you're happy with yourself, then everything else falls into place. Focus on doing what feels good, and you will attract more things and people that are good for you. Follow those feelings, and they will lead you to a life you love. When you can see how opportunities open up, you will know how powerful you really are - welcome to your exciting future!
If you need support to find the courage to believe in yourself please get in touch for a ZPoint session. Letting go of the past is easy as you relax, and you find the real you inside - ready to claim everything that is waiting for you.
"A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life." ~ James Allen
"We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future." ~ George Bernard Shaw
"Work on yourself first, take responsibility for your own progress." ~ I Ching
"You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself." ~ Jim Rohn
"You are not responsible for the programming you picked up in childhood. However, as an adult, you are one hundred percent responsible for fixing it." ~ Ken Keyes, Jr.
"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny." ~ Albert Ellis