With the ZPoint Process to support you as you progress at your own pace, you will be feeling more open to improving the quality of your life. One area that makes a big difference, is learning how to stop blaming others. This keeps you trapped as a victim, so that you can't enjoy all the benefits of being confident and capable.
Pointing the finger at other people, and other things, can seem like the easy answer, and it's something that we're brought up to do. You will notice how people around you complain about the boss at work, and how the government is at fault for everything.
It's easy to agree, in order to feel part of the crowd, but if you don't form your own opinions then nothing will change. Once you accept that you are responsible for everything that happens in your life, then you will have taken back control.
It might feel nice for a while to let others make decisions for you, because being an adult facing difficult choices isn't easy, but being passive won't satisfy you in any way.
What will satisfy you is when you take yourself out of your rut, and you feel really proud of yourself for facing life head on. The first step on your own is always the hardest, but because you've built up your self-esteem gradually, you know that you can cope, and every step that follows grows easier.
Knowing that you can depend on your own judgement is extremely empowering, and you will realize that blaming others only made you weak. When you make every choice by yourself, and accept that if it doesn't work out quite as you'd envisioned, then you simply make a new choice.
Your life becomes so much easier when you've eliminated the emotional dramas of arguments and blame. I know that I always blamed an ex when we split up, until I read an excellent book which taught me that if I continued to blame them, then it kept me attached to them, but if I accepted responsibility for my part in the failure, then it freed me to move on.
You will find that you get far more done, because you don't have to wait to ask anyone else what to do. Of course you can ask for advice, and with your ability to trust, you will know who you can depend on for support. But that is very different from subconsciously asking someone for help who you know won't deliver, so that you can blame them for not reaching your goals.
When you know that you can only reach your goal by the choices you make, you will find yourself making much wiser choices. You know that ZPoint helps you release fears and doubts, and provides a clear space for you to feel what is right for you, and this is your guide to keep on towards an independent, and successful future.
You can get the Amazon Kindle "How To Reduce Stress" by clicking the image on the right, and receive a download of a full ZPoint Session which you can use to increase your own self-belief and confidence.
"People spend too much time finding other people to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past, and getting on with their lives." ~ J. Michael Straczynski
"Every man is the architect of his own life. He builds it just the way he wants it. However, after he has built what he wants, he sometimes decides that he doesn't like what he has built and looks for someone or something to blame instead of changing himself." ~ Sydney Madwed