Do you keep getting overlooked for promotion at work?
Do your friends take it for granted that you will always say 'yes' when they ask a favour?
Do your family not even ask - they just expect you to do everything for them ... ?
Then you will feel resentful and unfulfilled. You are not here to always come last, or to be unappreciated, but the more often you experience this treatment, the lower your confidence levels will sink.
Until you have the confidence to know you deserve only the best, you will continue to attract poor behaviour from others. A list of tips to boost your confidence won't make any difference to your life, because they won't even scratch the surface.
You need to restore your sense of self-worth to how you felt as a baby - cherished, precious and highly valued. This is the core of who you really are, but circumstances, situations, and incidents have all built up layers to crush your true spirit.
From No Confidence To Becoming A Star!
This video from the X Factor auditions is a perfect example of how a poor single mother, with an amazing talent for singing, had lost all her confidence. She was too scared to even look at anyone.
Rebecca Ferguson was told that her life was over after she had her children so young. We're very lucky she faced her fears, because the world would be a lot poorer without her beautiful mellow voice, and her song-writing abilities, as shown in the video below.
Her first album, Heaven, is aptly named, because each song is heavenly ... Click on the right to listen to samples.
What talent have you suppressed?
How To Feel In Control With ZPoint
Because you can feel the change happening, you know that you can choose to have a different future. That instantly gives you confidence, because having the power to let go of the past puts you in control - and that's something you haven't had in a long time. The more you give others the power to direct your life, the more worthless you feel, so taking steps towards restoring your confidence reminds you how much of value you have to share.
You will be able to picture yourself actually participating in the dreams you've kept locked inside - and if you want to perform on stage - then that is entirely possible!
The more you experience Z Point, the more your confidence will build, and you will observe others react to you with the respect you deserve. Feeling more assured stops you accepting the way others take advantage of you. Don't worry - you won't suddenly change your personality!
Confidence isn't about becoming aggressive. You will recognise that the frustration growing inside you now is a burning anger - this is really unhealthy stress. After you've released the reasons that made you lose your confidence, you will feel much calmer, so you no longer snap when you've been pushed too far - because nobody will push you again.
You don't have to be on the outside watching others take all the prizes - you can choose to claim first prize for yourself! Get in touch to see how Z Point can restore your confidence today.
"Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained." - Marie Curie
"Besides pride, loyalty, discipline, heart, and mind, confidence is the key to all the locks." - Joe Paterno