This goes against the way we're brought up, when we're told as children not to be selfish, and to share our toys.
When you ignore your inner needs, and feel dissatisfied with what you feel, with what you have, and with what you do - then you're not sharing the best of you, and you won't want to willingly share your toys. You have to feel good about yourself first before you can make others feel good.
When you're at peace with yourself, then you're content with life, and it changes how you view everyone else. You stop reacting from fear, which is the root source of all negative emotions, and start to connect to the pure energy of love, which is the root source of all positive emotions.
When you stop judging and criticizing others, which only happens when you're not happy with yourself, then you don't see faults, which allows you to look for what is right instead. This goes back to constantly searching for proof that there is good in the world, and feeling grateful when you find it.
This time of year, when Thanksgiving is celebrated in America, gives you the opportunity to pause, and feel thankful for everything you already are - right now. Relaxing with ZPoint allows you to let go of the things you think you need, because it communicates with your subconscious, and by-passes your thinking mind.
When you can release the thoughts that are filling you up with clutter, you can stop struggling and striving - because you will experience the place of stillness and peace, where things don't matter - only feeling good does. This allows you to know the importance of caring for yourself, because when you're free from stress you can make better decisions from a place of calm and clarity.
You will recognize how choosing to feel grateful for what you have, and what you already are, improves everything in your life. Gratitude empowers you to make good choices for yourself first, so you can help others second. It's only when you know, without doubt, that there's no lack in your life, that you can give freely.
I want you to feel good about yourself - because I want you to give to others unconditionally. Kiva have free $25 loans waiting for you to choose who will receive them. There are so many deserving people living in poverty who are working hard so their children can receive education, and go on to find good jobs which improves their whole community.
By giving away $25 you prove there is abundance freely available - and you learn how good it feels to give to others from a place of feeling good about yourself - not because you have to, or because you feel guilty, or because you have any expectations. Enjoy the difference!
"You have to count on living every single day in a way you believe will make you feel good about your life - so that if it were over tomorrow, you'd be content with yourself." ~ Jane Seymour
"Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it." ~ Groucho Marx